วันอาทิตย์ที่ 19 มกราคม พ.ศ. 2557

As the Pendulum Swings - The Mind-Brain Connection by Lindsay A Brady

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Finding the Connection Connecting Peace of Mind and the Joy of Consciousness

"As the Pendulum Swings" is Lindsay A. Brady's true life story. Brady is a nationally recognized clinical hypnotherapist. The book is divided into two parts. Part one tells of Brady's early interest in hypnosis and of his curiosity regarding the mind/brain connection. It talks about his search for answers to unresolved questions and about how he overcame his lack of confidence, his inhibitions, his scholastic deficits, and of his low self perception.

Brady uses sketches as illustrative case studies to provide the reader with an understanding of the process and objectives of hypnosis and hypnotherapy. He explains how "perceptionism" is the force in hypnotherapy. Brady describes how he developed an approach to help his clients overcome their self destructive behaviors.

Part two explores his theory behind hypnosis and of the influences that led to his conclusions. He discusses perception, regression, and altered consciousness. Brady shares illustrations of "conversations" held in his own "inner room." He tells of drawing on wisdom from conversations with an inner wisdom he named "Socrates."

The book includes a comprehensive appendix which with detailed information on the structure of a typical perceptionism session, perception's influence, the nervous system, and muscular behavior. He also provides insight into eliminating the difficulties of stress and anxiety. I appreciated the excellent bibliography which includes book resources and available courses.

Brady is intellectually stimulating. His writing is fast moving, and hilarious. His self deprecating humor hides his true genius. He is very entertaining, rich in profound insight and understanding in areas of consciousness and self fulfillment.

"As the Pendulum Swings" is a welcome addition to the reading list or library of all who are interested in investigating the "mind/brain" connection. Worthwhile, stimulating, and entertaining.

Robert D. Reed Publishers, 978-1934759363

As Reviewed for Midwest Book Review

Richard R. Blake, Christian Education Consultant, Freelance Writer, Editiorial Resources, Critiques, Book Reviews




วันเสาร์ที่ 11 มกราคม พ.ศ. 2557

Overcoming Passive Aggression

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What I like about the book is that even though it addresses the angry person as "the problem" and the focus is on how that person expresses or fails to express hidden anger, there is a strong call to action on the part of the person who is in a relationship with the angry person. And part of the call is being careful about the way we express anger.

The book identifies several types of passive-aggressive people and their deep inner motivations for expressing their anger passively. The authors point out that there are deep inner needs that drive the other person's behavior and they often stem from childhood. Understanding what those needs might be help to explain why they are using these sneaky expressions of behavior instead of expressing it directly.

It also separates the differences you encounter when the passive-aggressive person is your partner, your child, your parent, your boss, your coworker, or your best friend.

The authors give detailed descriptions and great case stories to illustrate how the different types of passive-aggressive behavior show up.

They have numerous checklists to take in case, you, the reader, are the angry person expressing it passively. And they identify the costs of anger in terms of health challenges, ruined marriages, lost job promotions, estranged family relationships and others.

If you are dealing with someone's hidden anger at home, at work or in some other situation, you are likely to recognize it as you read this book. Most likely, you know that already, but one of the possible problems they mentioned is that people enable and protect the angry person, denying, ignoring or minimizing the other person's behavior.

For me, the most helpful part of the book is the part where they describe enabling and issue the call to stop it. They make several suggestions about the changes you need to make if you are encountering someone's hidden anger...

(1) Immediately stop enabling it. Address it directly and clearly and set firm boundaries about what is or is not acceptable.

(2) But do so calmly, watching carefully the way you express your own anger, lessening your own reactiveness when something happens. Be as positive as you can during each interaction. Make the interaction about resolution and state clearly what you would like to see happen to resolve the problem.

(3) Don't accept excuses if you are clear that what happened is an example of hidden anger expressed in a passive-aggressive way. And be direct about the consequences of continuing the behavior.

(4) Don't be drawn into an argument about which one of you is right and which one is wrong.

(5) Be careful not to attack the person but to focus instead on what happened and what you believe needs to happen now and in the future. Behavior not character.

"About half of passive-aggressors are fully aware of what they are doing, Engel estimates. The rest act (or don't act) unwittingly and then wonder why they get people's blood boiling."-- therapist Beverly Engel, author of Honor Your Anger: How Transforming Your Anger Style Can Change Your Life.

For more information about how to deal with the passive-aggressive person in your life, go to http://www.squidoo.com/overcoming-passive-aggression.

For a recorded meditation that will help you heal the anger and hurt feelings that have built up in you due to your partner's passive-aggressive behavior, go to Healing Relationship Issues.

Jeanine Byers Hoag is a certified holistic health practitioner and is the author of the forthcoming The Life That's Waiting for You: Four Simple Steps to Identifying and Living Your Life Purpose.




วันพุธที่ 1 มกราคม พ.ศ. 2557

The Science and Psychology of Lying - Psychological Book Review

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All humans lie, in fact they are probably one of the most deceptive species on the entire planet, and with their rather large brain humans are able to lie about just about anything. We know when our politicians are lying to us, what's that old joke; "when their lips are moving." But did you know that your parents lie, your teachers lie, your boss lies, your spouse lies, and everywhere you go half of what you hear is not entirely correct.

Some believe this is a moral choice, and it varies from culture to culture, but for the most part it permeates every human endeavor in every culture. If you'd like to learn more about the psychology of lying, and how to spot a liar, not that it's that hard, then I have a really good research book that like to recommend to you. It's helped me significantly in business, and allowed me to forgive all the Liars I run across. The book is called;

"Lying; Moral Choice in Public and Private Life," by Sissela Bok, 1978.

The research writer asks the question; what is the whole truth? And what's the difference between a Liars perception and the perspective of the deceived; these are both different points of view. There are a couple of very good chapters on this topic, and the author does not lie in explaining it. She also goes into great detail on religious lies, and when you must lie based on your job or duty. These are all dilemmas that the book discusses.

She also talks about white lies and the justification of such, along with mutual deceit, and even the ethics of lying to Liars. How about giving the enemy their due, and deception in warfare, competition, etc, indeed, she discusses what she calls the noble lie, along with the lies or compliments which are not deserved. I think you will very much enjoy the book, and if you are psychologists I recommend it to you, because it might help you to stop lying to yourself. Please consider all this.

Lance Winslow is a retired Founder of a Nationwide Franchise Chain, and now runs the Online Think Tank. Lance Winslow believes in truth.




วันอังคารที่ 17 ธันวาคม พ.ศ. 2556

Mental Illness and Homelessness Connected to Violence

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Through thousands of anecdotal cases documented for forty years and also tracing the legal history of mental illness from the late 1940s, Dr. Torrey, an eminent psychiatrist, effectively makes the connecting link between a percent of people afflicted with mental illness who are at risk of violent behavior. Schizophrenia, bipolar disorder and severe depression are Dr. Torrey's targeted mental health areas. A portion of this population does not acknowledge their illness, do not take their medication and frequently abuse alcohol and drugs. It is this segment of mentally ill persons who most often display, or are at risk of, dangerous and violent behavior. It is also this segment of mentally ill persons who, unfortunately, stigmatize the majority of mentally ill individuals who "make good neighbors."

"One of the great social disasters of recent American history" is the aptly coined phrase Dr. Torrey uses to describe the consequences of laws and policies that have led to increasing homelessness, incarceration, violence and homicides involving mentally ill. Most importantly, the legislatively passed laws and policies have caused much anguish and pain for the multitude of families with extremely mentally ill loved ones.

During the past fifty years hundreds of thousands of people have been released from the public mental hospitals as a result of civil rights involuntary commitment law suits and civil rights lawsuits that said a person with a mental illness has a right to refuse to take medications, even though the medications are effective in treating the person. The results led to deinstitutionalization which subsequently led to documented homelessness, violence, incarceration and tragedy for a segment of the mentally ill population.

One of the documented cases Dr. Torrey summarizes in his book involves an intelligent young man who at the age of sixteen was diagnosed with schizophrenia and considered dangerous. He was in-and-out of hospitals, threatened on several occasions to kill his mother, his sister and her child. His behavior became increasingly erratic as he got older. For over ten years his mother and sister tried in vain to get help. Finally, in desperation and out of love in not wanting to see him suffer the rest of his life they killed him. Dr. Torrey agreed to testify pro bono for the defense at the trial but the lawyer declined. Sadly, Dr. Torrey states that several times each year someone in the United States makes the same decision. "Faced with what appears to be inevitable, the unthinkable becomes thinkable."

Another documented case related by Dr. Torrey is a 2004 case involving a bipolar disordered young man who was not taking his medication, strangled his mother and stabbed to death his sister and her young son. His father, a lawyer, stated, "If I had had any clue this would happen, I would have gone over there, killed my son, and turned myself in..."

Dr. Torrey's belief is that the system that treats mentally ill persons is sadly deficit. He makes the strong case that it is imperative the mental health policies be reformed and that policies mandate the extremely mentally ill persons who could be or are dangerous receive the treatment they clearly need. The final chapter of his book is devoted to the steps that should be taken to successfully fix the present disastrously ineffective system.

This book is a must-read for anyone with a loved one suffering from mental illness and for all other individuals concerned with mental illness and the subset of people with potential for violence.

Justine Landes
Co-author: Nehemiah Landes




วันอาทิตย์ที่ 8 ธันวาคม พ.ศ. 2556

Superfreakonomics-' amusing, informative, thought-energy-conventional wisdom Overturns

Superfreakonomics Steven Levitt and Stephen Dubner have two wildly popular and successful bestseller Freakonomics, p?ihit?t the facts which explain the economic advantages and disadvantages of human behaviors vary depending on the drug is a baby name. Superfreakonomics, such as its predecessor is a single topic or theme to pin down. Rambles through the range of topics, amiably economic reasons, unforeseen consequences, as well as the solutions, prostitution, terrorism, health care, apathy and altruism, child safety and climate change. It deals with the economics eating Kangaroo meat (Hint: it is the conclusion of a fart!), sex change operations, and chemotherapy.

The continuous rolling of traditional solutions and the most fascinating factoids that are sure to add color to the cocktail party conversation dozes readers provide. Which is more dangerous to the drunk driving or a drunk walking? Why was the horse manure in New York City, a major problem in the last century? Why suicide bombers should buy life insurance, even if the life insurance contracts not to pay in the event of suicide? Why does the traffic-related deaths increased within three months following the 9/11 attacks? How the 9/11 attacks highlight the problem that resulted in a revolutionary advance in medicine? You can find the answers to Superfreakonomics.

This book answers to questions, no one ever stopped to ask, in particular, for some strange sex, gender differences, and prostitution. Why is 35 million fewer females than men in India? Why is it that men in India has a low success rate of condoms? Is a Chicago COP's prostitute are more likely to be stopped, or has sex with a COP? Can monkeys teach sex two cost?

Superfreakonomics is not all trivia. It will tell you what chemotherapy is working and to those which have been completely ineffective cancer types. In fact, it make you think twice about what happens to the hospital, the doctor's Office, and the emergency room. It also shows the truth about child safety seats.

Most people remember the story about the murder of Kitty Genovese. He brutally murdered the assailant here in Queens New York neighborhood, even if you have followed the 38 neighbors; No one called the police. At, at least, that is the story of the newspapers reported the story that later appeared in the tens, the sociology of texts in the following decade. There is only one problem. The story is not entirely real. Levitt and Dubner tell what really happened, some of the surprising findings of altruism, and your own.

Levitt and Dubner Show how Cheap and simple solutions can sometimes be found also, or, in the case of expensive and complicated problems, such as hurricanes, global warming, and infections are the hospital invented. Anyone who reads this book is no doubt, that is to say, "Wow, never knew that!" or "I never thought about it this way!"

Superfreakonomics is a fascinating, informative and amusing, '' acted on at the same time. It provided a new perspective of the two topics that are grabbing headlines today. Read the Freakonomics and Superfreakonomics, and find out how wrong our politicians and the heads of State or Government are really! Now, when you read it, understand why these two books is a huge following! You have successfully joined in the next lot of my delight.

Judith e. Pearson, Ph.d. is a licensed hypnotherapist, Advisor, author, speaker and Coach NLP Motivational private practice strategies, Inc., Springfield, Virginia. He is a certified clinical Hypnotherapists http://www.natboard.com/National Board Executive Director. He published recently by the weight, you can reduce the weight of the Hypnotherapy and NLP and Hypnotherapy Practitioners program: a handbook. This web site is http://www.engagethepower.com/




วันเสาร์ที่ 30 พฤศจิกายน พ.ศ. 2556

Sex, Sexuality, and Therapeutic Practice

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Human sexuality is a complex and controversial issue that is often ignored during therapy and clinical training. Yet, it is a salient aspect of the human experience, which requires deep understanding by both client presenting for therapy and therapist facilitating treatment.

Sex, Sexuality, and Therapeutic Practice provides therapists with a critical framework for understanding our personal beliefs regarding sexuality and a guide for addressing sexuality in clinical practice. Written from systemic, cognitive behavioral, and social constructivist approaches, this book offers readers an opportunity to understand the impact of sex and sexuality on the individual as well as on the larger social and cultural contexts in which the person lives.

The book begins with a theoretical discussion regarding various conceptualizations of sex and sexuality. A straightforward description of sex, sexuality, and gender through biological, legal, moral, and spiritual lenses provide readers with a solid knowledge base on which to draw throughout the remaining chapters. The next chapter discusses how therapists may talk about sex with clients during therapy. A discussion regarding health and disability sheds lights on the sexual issues often experienced by this infrequently discussed population. The following chapter considers the experience of sexual and gender minorities during therapy, purporting how training programs may address these issues with aspiring therapists. The penultimate chapter evaluates sexuality across the lifespan; a developmental perspective toward the end of the book provides a context in which the previous chapters may be understood. This is a critical chapter as it describes the unfolding of sexuality across the developmental continuum. The book culminates with a chapter discussing the relationship among culture, sex, and sexuality.

This book is a practical guide for all therapists regardless of theoretical orientation. Practical exercises pepper each chapter to ensure that readers apply the information rather than simply think theoretically about sexuality. Quizzes ask readers to test their assumptions and knowledge about sex, sexuality, gender, and sexual orientation. Complex theories and concepts are boxed and bulleted to facilitate readers' understanding and application of those concepts to clinical care. Diagrams complement complex theories and provide readers with a visual image that illustrates the relationship among theory, concept, and human behavior. This is a definite read for students in graduate training programs and therapists currently in practice.




วันอาทิตย์ที่ 17 พฤศจิกายน พ.ศ. 2556

Book Review - RESOLVE: A New Model Of Therapy by Richard Bolstad

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Copyright: 2002

Publisher: Crown House Publishing

Richard Bolstad's book RESOLVE: A New Model of Therapy is excellent on several levels and is highly recommended for anyone interested in advancing the science of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) or the use of NLP is psychotherapeutic practice. It is extensively referenced, citing research, other NLP developer's ideas, and non-NLP models of change. This is not a book focused on NLP "pyrotechnics" (his term), rather it is integrative and practical. Bolstad makes connections between NLP and other models of psychotherapy. He presents a perspective on the utility of NLP as an explanatory model, as NLP concepts are useful for explaining what therapist from many orientations do. His RESOLVE model is essentially a well articulated synthesis of the use of the NLP in the context of an NLP informed psychotherapy model.

The book provides a historical perspective on NLP and psychotherapy. Bolstad makes the point that NLP's roots and assumptions have connections with other forms of psychotherapy. He devotes a chapter providing a clear, science based, linkage between NLP and how the brain functions. Bolstad discusses several aspects of the model (representational systems, submodalities, emotional states, etc.) and relates these to what has been learned in recent years about neurological functioning. For instance, his discussion of the state-dependent qualities of neural encoding and the implications of this for intervention was fascinating.

Bolstad makes the point that research into NLP is still needed to make it more useful for psychotherapists. He notes that since the earliest NLP writings this need has been recognized, "but it was 20 years before the field of NLP itself began to respond effectively to this need." He goes on to describe several studies published over the last ten years that examined the use of NLP in psychotherapy that found positive results. But research supporting that NLP is successful "in a general sense" has not been enough to draw a great deal of attention to it among psychotherapists. He also notes that few attempts to link NLP techniques and those used in other models of psychotherapy have been made since NLP's inception, with a notable exception being Practical Magic: A Translation of Basic Neuro-Linguistic Programming into Clinical Psychotherapy by Stephen Lankton, published in 1980. Bolstad notes that it has been more than 20 years since Lankton's book and "both NLP and psychotherapy have evolved." Clearly Bolstad feels that more attention to the use of NLP in psychotherapy is warranted. A major accomplishment of this book is to systematically address how NLP fits into psychotherapy as it is practiced today. Among other things, he advocates the incorporation of NLP interventions into the context of the therapist preferred modality to speed the achievement of many specific results.

In my estimation one of the critical points Bolstad makes relates to what type of information constitutes data supporting the validity of NLP as a change technology. While advocating more clinical research, he also contends that "Because much of NLP is a metadiscipline (a way of analyzing and describing other disciplines), research conducted in these other disciplines will often validate NLP hypotheses (page 6)." This seems to be a recurrent theme as he draws parallels between what various therapeutic modalities do, many of which have more direct empirical support (than NLP per se), and the NLP interventions that use similar processes; just described with different terminology.

In Chapter three, Choices for Change, he contends that most therapeutic modalities have some variant of the techniques of NLP interventions. Bolstad divides NLP interventions in 10 general categories: anchoring, installing new strategies, changing sub modalities, trance-work, parts integration, timeline changes, linguistic reframing, changing interpersonal dynamics, changing physiological contexts, and tasking. He gives examples of the use of these intervention types then describes how these processes are evident in other models of psychotherapy. This part of the book was both provocative and integrative and left me wanting more of this useful style of analysis. It highlighted how change work from various modalities can be understood utilizing NLP as an explanatory model. This book illustrates what many therapists who utilize NLP already know, "NLP" is evident in what therapists do whether they call it NLP or not. He provides information to assist therapists trained in other systems to begin to see the "NLP" in what they do.

Chapter four, the last major section of the book, presents the RESOLVE model. The model is an NLP informed framework for the process of psychotherapy. Though the core ideas (such as presuppositions) and skill-sets (such as rapport building skills) are from NLP, it is clear how his model would be useful for therapists even they are not using NLP change processes per se. RESOLVE is an acronym with each letter corresponding to a part of the model. The letters denote the following: "R" denotes the Resourceful state the therapist should generate in themselves in order to most effectively work with the client. "E" denotes Establish rapport. "S" is Specify the outcome, noting that establishing a well formed outcome is a central NLP premise for change work. "O" is Open up [the client's] model of the world. In some ways this is an intervention but it is also a preparatory task, testing their commitment to change. "L" in the RESOLVE model is Leading to desired state. This is a specific change intervention or process designed to achieve the specified outcome. "V" is Verify Change. "E" is Ecological exit. He discusses each component of the model in detail and continued to make connections and place his ideas in the context of the broader field of psychotherapy. The concepts Bolstad chose to explain and explore were also very useful, practical, and compelling.

In the book Bolstad also makes several points differentiating NLP techniques from a broader view of NLP in the context of psychotherapy. For instance, he makes the point that the techniques of NLP are not simply tools to be used; they are tools requiring a context to be most efficacious. Specifically he notes that "For a person new to NLP, it is tempting to think of "leading" as the real NLP change process. In fact, each step of the RESOLVE model is equally significant in the achievement of change. The steps overlap and reinforce each other, forming a system that increases the chances of success dramatically."

Another point he discusses is that a frequent criticism about NLP and psychotherapy is that NLP fails to understand the importance of the therapeutic relationship. Bolstad argues that, on the contrary, NLP psychotherapy has its foundation in a new and innovative framing of this relationship. It is "educative and consultative" rather than therapeutic in the traditional sense. He believes that how the NLP practitioner structures this relationship is one NLP's most original contributions to the therapeutic theory. He notes the importance of this relationship in facilitating the effectiveness of the change processes themselves.

In sum this book is impressive. Bolstad's RESOLVE model is one way to formulate the integration of NLP in psychotherapy and it is very well done. His supporting citations and reasoning are equally valuable. It is essentially structured as a text book, replete with references. He notes in his introductory chapter if you want to know the research behind what you are doing, as opposed to just an introduction to NLP, "this book will give you those extra pieces." The book delivers on this promise. It is packed with useful information, explanation, and ideas to consider. Psychotherapists, NLP practitioners and trainers, and researchers need to read this book.

Rich Liotta, Ph.D., is a Psychologist, Author, Trainer, Consultant, and Photographer. As an Author and Fine Art Nature Photographer he strives to encourage appreciation and stimulate potentials toward growth and change. As a Trainer and Consultant he is passionate about providing tools to help people enrich and transform their lives. He offers workshops and seminars, including sponsored events, on a variety of topics. He is a Certified Trainer of Neuro-Semantics, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, and Ericksonian Hypnosis. He owns Enrichment Associates Consultation & Training (http://enrichmentact.com/) with his spouse Rosemary. His more community oriented blog is http://changepathsblog.com/. He is a believer in human potential, abundance, and beauty in the world!